This 27 year old woman admits that she continues to survive strongly against all the blows and trials of life.
"If I may vent here a little, perhaps what was my problem was, at that time when I was hit by an exam, I was more like: Oh, I have to be strong. "I have to be strong as a woman, especially since I have two children, I have to get up," said Irish Bella.
Even so, Irish Bella always convinces herself not to regret all the problems that come her way.
Irish Bella always strengthened herself not to cry quickly, but it turned out that all her decisions were considered wrong.
"I can't be down. And I can't cry, I can't cry. And it turns out, my goodness, that's really wrong," said Irish Bella.
"It actually made it difficult for me to get up because I didn't allow myself to accept that," he added
In fact, said Iris Bella, it's okay to admit that she is 'weak' in the sense that she has to be able to accept all her shortcomings.
According to him, there is no need to feel embarrassed about crying because everyone has their own problems at different levels.
"Crying doesn't mean you're weak. Being angry at the right time doesn't mean you're out of control," he concluded.
If later the Panel of Judges fulfills Irish Bella's divorce suit, then for the first time she will legally become a widow.
However, the decision to file for divorce must go through a fairly long process. Inner war and tears cannot be avoided.
“And it turns out I've only learned now after what I've been through: It's okay to not be okay. It's okay if you want to be sad. "If you want to cry," added Irish Bella.
"A strong woman doesn't mean we can't cry, you know." he closed.